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Joan Sheehan's avatar

Love this! The grandkids will treasure this memory as much as I treasure the memories of fishing with my dad. He actually grew up in Boston but readily adapted to country life and I will always remember fishing and the thrill of the catch! It was either a catfish or a pumpkinseed.

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Susan Campbell's avatar

This is the first time I’ve heard of a pumpkinseed. Very cool!

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Jac's avatar

I do love how you tell a story!

My grandpa taught me to fish, too. Though he was the one who removed any caught fish. They had a cottage on a lake, and it was an event if we got up early, rowed out to "the spot", and dropped our lines. Otherwise, I fished from their dock. Grandpa was a good sport. I finally learned to bait my own hook, which involved letting a minnow flop around on the dock while I tried to hook it. If it was lucky, it would flop back into the water before I could snag it. When I did catch a fish, and grandpa was inside, I'd call up..."Grandpa, I caught a fish!" He'd come on down to unhook it and toss it back. I talked myself out of the reality of what happens when a hook is pulled out of the insides. I fished a lot. Us kids would make poles with sticks sometimes and we'd dig for worms as bait. They didn't work well, but it was more about the experience and acting like we had a job to do.

They were good memories, but I still don't like to bait hooks or unhook fish. I was relieved when my kids quickly lost interest in fishing after a couple of years.

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Susan Campbell's avatar

I took my son fishing and had a similar flying fish into a tree experience, and that pretty much cured him of any interest in it. Thank God.

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Mary Ann Dimand's avatar

I never heard the bobber credo. But anyway we swiftly moved on to a bubble, a wet fly, and casting. We kept the fish when they were legal and ate them. (My father kindly pried the skins from catfish. I still haven't ever done that.) My father once won a $5 bet-- lots in 1974 Southern Illinois-- by catching our dinner on the way home from campus. (We had a Very Good Spot.) Man, I could do with some bluegill or pumpkinseeds now.

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Susan Campbell's avatar

The sad fact is I don't like fish as a meal. I avoid fish, as a rule, so fishing is really just a catch-and-release-and-frighten-the-fish experience for me. My grandfather was pure country and anything citified (automatic-shift cars, electric washing machines) was suspect.

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Mary Ann Dimand's avatar

Ah. I grew up in Southern Illinois but my father grew up in Cleveland, Ohio, so definitely citified.

You know, I actually remember my mother using a scrubbing board, and I used a toy one. (I'm pretty sure that's a commonplace for you, but I doubt they're common knowledge now. I just asked my 16yo son, who was to my surprise somewhat familiar with them, though he thought of them as "washing boards.")

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Susan Campbell's avatar

Yep. I have one hanging in a bathroom now.

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Sharon Foster (CT)'s avatar

Beautiful story. They will remember that day all their lives.

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Susan Campbell's avatar

That’s the idea, isn’t it? Make good memories.

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jdscully@comcast.net's avatar

I smiled through this whole story... the grandpa memories, his expressions, and the grandkids excitement. You spin a great tale. :)

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